Monday, April 28, 2014

Kau ditakdirkan untukku

Kau ditakdirkan untukku..
Dari saat pertama akad dilafaz,
Di saat itu, perkenalan kita bermula.
Setiap detik yang berlalu hingga kini,
Terasa begitu berharga
Ada sahaja perkara baru yang ku tahu tentang dirimu
Dan aku terima lebih dan kurangmu
Kerana aku tahu kau juga begitu

Kau ditakdirkan untukku..
Aku terkesan dengan perilakumu
Aku tertunduk dengan kata nasihatmu
Aku kagum dengan kesabaranmu
Aku bersyukur dengan keimananmu
Aku bahaga dengan kasih sayangmu

Kau ditakdirkan untukku..
Aku melafaz rasa bersyukur padaMu Tuhan
Dikurniakan pendamping yang menjagaku
Menjaga maruahku dari fitnah dunia terhadap wanita
Menjaga hatiku dari kotoran-kotoran mazmumah
Menjaga lidahku dari berkata buruk

Kau ditakdirkan untukku..
Terima kasih atas segalanya
Silap tingkahku, silap lisanku
Aku mohon ampun sepenuh hati
Kerna kutahu mana letaknya syurgaku
Redha Allah itu terletak pada redhamu kepadaku

Kau yang ditakdirkan untukku..
Wahai suamiku.
Semoga imanmu sentiasa dipeliharaNya
Semoga aqidah sentiasa dijagaNya
Semoga dirimu sentiasa daam lindunganNya


-p/s: Mohd Fadzlam Saari
         (hadiah Allah dari langit untukku )

=)





Wednesday, April 9, 2014

New Phase in my life..

Assalamualaikum wbt...

Alhamdulillah..=)

Saya masih bernafas dengan nikmat iman dan islam yang diberikan Allah dan semoga ianya sampai ke akhir hayat saya..

Blog yang sangat lama tidak dijamah..What a buzy and hectic life I am having nowadays. Pejam celik pejam celik..it has been 3 months since i have been declared as husband and wife, one of the greatest bond which is the "misthaqan ghaliza".. Perjanjian yang kukuh dan kuat antara seorang suami dan seorang isteri dan amat tinggi nilainya dalam Islam.

Nak berkongsi pengalaman dan asam garam kehidupan setelah berumah tangga? Rasa masih tidak layak kerana usia pernikahan baru setahun jagung..owh mgkin bukan setahun jagung...tapi masih diperingkat anak benih yang disemai..

It is a new phase for me where I need to realize that my focus and loyalty have shifted from my parents to this one great man. Knowing him since 2006 but never realize that he is my destiny. Until last year, we had come to an agreement to get married. We just got to know each other more in the middle of last year and end of year, we were married. That was the 6th time we met each other. =)..It's a miracle kan? 

Rasa bersyukur yang tidak terhingga kerana dikurniakan seorang teman hidup yang sangat memahami dan penyabar..It is a blessing from Allah to have him in my life..

Sedikit pesanan untuk diri sendiri:

"-Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w yang bermaksud : “Apabila seorang wanita (isteri) itu telah melakukan sembahyang lima waktu, puasa bulan Ramadhan, menjaga maruahnya dan mentaati perintah suaminya, maka ia dijemput di akhirat supaya masuk Syurga mengikut pintunya mana yang ia suka (mengikut pilihannya).”

(Hadis Riwayat Ahmad, Ibnu Hibban dan Thabrani)"


Rasulullah s.a.w. bersabda yang maksudnya:“Sebaik-baik isteri ialah yang dapat menyenangkan hati suaminya apabila engkau (suami) melihatnya dan apabila disuruh dia menurut perintahmu, dan dia dapat menjaga kehormatan dirinya dan hartamu ketika engkau tiada di rumah.

(Riwayat Thabrani)



MARI MENJADI ISTERI YANG SOLEHAH 



Thursday, September 5, 2013

Hadiah dari langit

Dear blog,

I miss you..=)

Assalamualaikum wbt..

It has been ages since the last time I updated this blog..I have been inspired by someone to continue writing in this blog..It does feel good to be back again..

Well, people...

I am thankful with what I have now.
There's nothing more that I can ask for from Allah SWT
I am really contented with the blessing that He has given me.
Allah's blessings are beyond my expectation..

So, yes..I am really glad..=)

Alhamdulillah, alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah

Indeed, what Allah has promised in the Quran is so so so true..

Surely, there is ease after hardship
Aye, surely there is ease after hardship
(Al-Insyirah: 6, 7)


p/s: Dear Allah, let me be the one who will always remember You
     : Alhamdulillah sbb sy dpt hadiah yg jatuh dari langit..=)




Saturday, February 23, 2013

I'm back in here again: 2013

Assalamualaikum wbt..

I'm back..Alhamdulillah....

Now, I am in the middle of reading an inspiring book by Yasmin Mogahed. The title is "Reclaim you heart".. What a good book for one to reflect on oneself and understand the nature of this life.Yes, some of us actually already know what is the meaning of this life from the point of view of a muslim. However, as we are the 'al-insan' which mean always being the one who forget things, we need reminders (tazkirah) to keep on reminding us so that we are not going astray from the right path.Let me share one of the pearls inside the book.

EMPTYING THE VESSEL

"Before you can fill any vessel, you must first empty it. The heart is a vessel. And like any vessel, the heart too must be emptied-before it can be filled. One can never hope to fill the heart with God, so long as that vessel is full of other than Him subhanahu taa'la (exalted He is)" To empty the heart doesn't mean to not love. On the contrary, true love, as God intended it, it purest when it is not based on a false attachment.


See...I love the words that Yasmin has used..Deep..very deep..let's think....=)


Oh Dear,
As long as eyes can see, 
As long as heart can beat,
As long as we are still in this world,
The journey is still there
For some people, it has begun for a long time
And for some people it has just started
What ever it is, as long as we are in this journey,
We are under the blessing of Allah
What journey that I am talking about?

It is the journey of coming back to the only path that the God Almighty has chosen for us..
It is ISLAM

Wallahualam...

It does feel good to return back to this blog..=)



Wednesday, August 1, 2012

The power of ' Doa '

Assalamualaikum wbt....I would like to share this marvellous and heart purifying story. It is taken from Suhaibwebb.com...

Dr. Saed, a well-known doctor, was once on his way to an important medical conference in another city in which he was going to be granted an award for medical research he had recently done. He could barely contain his excitement on his way to the airport and couldn't wait until he arrived at the conference. He had worked long and hard on his research and felt his efforts deserved the award he was about to obtain. However, an hour after the plane took off, the pilot announced that there was a problem with the plane and that they were going to make an emergency landing at the nearest airport.

Afraid that he wouldn't make it in time for the conference, the doctor ran to the information desk as soon as the plane landed and explained to the woman at the desk that he was expected to be at a very important conference and that he needed to find another war to get to his destination. She told him that there was nothing she could do to help him as there wouldn't be another flight to his destination for another sixteen hours; but suggested he rent a car and drive down to the city as it was only three hours away. Having no other choice, the doctor agreed to the idea despite his hatred for driving long distances.

The doctor rented a car and started his journey. However, soon after he left, the weather suddenly changed and heavy storm began. The pouring rain made it very difficult form him to see and he missed a turn he was supposed to take. After two hours of driving, he was convinced he was lost. Driving in the heavy rain on a deserted road, feeling hungry and tired, he frantically began to look for any sign of civilization. After some time, he finally came across a dark tiny cottage. Desperate, he got out of the car and knocked on the door.

A small elderly woman opened the door for him. He explained his situation and asked if he could use her telephone, She told him she didn't have a phone or electricity but that he was welcome to come in for some food and something warm to drink as he completely lost his way and that it would take him some time to get back on the right road. Hungry, wet and exhausted, the doctor accepted her kind offer and walked in, The woman told him to help himself to some food and hot tea on the table and then helped herself to finish her prayers. Sitting on the table sipping his tea, the doctor watched the woman in the dim light of the candles as she prayed next to what appeared to be a small baby crib. Every time she finished a prayer, she would start another one, and she seemed to be engrossed in making du'a' while in sujood (prostration). Every now and then she would rock the crib gently.

Feeling that the woman might be in need of help, the doctor seized the opportunity to speak as soon as she finished one of her prayers and told her that he hoped Allah (swt) would answer his du'a'. He then said that he noticed that she had been making a lot of du'a' and asked if there was something she needed that she could fet for her or help her with. The woman smiled and said that Allah (swt) had answered all her prayers accept for one. She said she didn't know why Allah (swt) hadn't answered this specific prayer yet but perhaps it was because of her weak iman (faith).

The doctor asked if she didn't mind telling him what she was making the du'a' for. Nodding her head in approval, she said that the child in the crib was her grandson and that both his parents had recently died in a car accident. She said that the child had a rare type of cancer and that all the doctors she had seen were unable to treat him. She also said that she had been told there was a doctor who specialized in the type of cancer her grandson had, but there was no way for her to get to this doctor who lived far away from her; so she has been spending her days and nights praying and making du'a' that Allah (swt) helps her find a way to get to Dr Saeed-the doctor who could treat her grandson.

Upon hearing her words, tears began to floe down the doctor's cheeks and he said: SubhanAllah (glory be to God), there was a malfunction in the plane, a thunderstorm hit, and I lost my way, and all of this happened because Allah (swt) did not just answer your prayer by helping you find a way to get to Dr. Saeed, but he brought Dr. Saeed to your house. "I am Dr. Saeed"

Tears streaming down her cheecks, the woman raised her hands in du'a' and said; 'Oh Allah, how great and merciful You are!!!!

p/s: sweet and beautiful aye...=)...

"And whoever fears Allah, He will make for him a way out/ And will provide for him from where he does not expect"- (65:2-3)


"And when my seravnts ask you, [ O Muhammad ], concerning Me- indeed I am near, I respond to the invocation of every supplicant when he calls upon Me.. (2: 186)

Monday, May 28, 2012

Under the shades of His blessings

Assalamualaikum wbt...

When I look through my journey back then, I feel so blessed. I am blessed with everything and anything that has turned me into what I am today. For all the things that I need to give in and receive are actually part and parcel of life that I need to face. I have realized that they come with reasons..

So, dear Allah...please..
bless me with your blessings..
forgive me when I disobey You..
grant my wishes as You are the only one that I could ask from

Wallahualam...
                 

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Dear you

Assalamualaikum wbt...



Dear you,you are now being tested with a huge test. Just remember that you have Allah, your family,your masulah and friends..You know this is the sign and the big alarm for you to take action.

Alhamdulillah there's a relief after each difficulty...





=)..yey...=)

Thursday, March 8, 2012

I need a life jacket here!!!

Assalamualaikum wbt...

Happy holiday to ols..finally, i manage to rest myself after three exhausting weeks. Fuhh!!!..well, This holiday is not actually be as it supposed to be..hurm..i have to train my boys and girls for a drama comp which will be exactly after this holiday..to make it clear, 2 days after this holiday which reminds me that" hello, there's not much time left".."too many things to do"...the props aren't ready yet "...hey relax...this is a team work so dont worry because we still have some time to do it..insyaAllah...(ok thats just a monologue)..so ignore it...

Focusing on the topic for this post, it is a kind of reminder for me so that I am not strong enough to be alone...meaning is that when we are far away from regular tarbiyah ( education specifically about Islam), we tend to do the things that Allah dont really like it and the worst part of all, it gives us more sins..Being so long, not going to usrah and certain programmes that really helps to clean your heart, is a big danger..An analogy that i can put here is that you are swimming in the sea and you are about to drown..Suddenly there are people who come and give you a life jacket where you will can swim without being afraid of drowning.Just assume the sea as this life. Drowning here as You blend with world and with high possibilities to go astray from the right path.Whike the life jacket is the factor that can bring you back living in the islamic way.

Living in this hectic world, esp when you have your own career really takes a lot of your time and usually in a day, you just have the time to eat, sleep and pray. It is also a burden for you when you are a new people there and people use this chance to give you a lot of works. All this things consume a alot of your time and you dont even have the time to refresh your self..not to forget the most important thing which is your IMAN...

Need to put a stop here...this is fariena reminds you as well as reminding herself in case we forgot..

Wallahualam...





Saturday, February 18, 2012

Perihal budak asrama

Assalamualaikum wbt...


Bermula daripada 3hb Januari sehingga sekarang, macam-macam perkara yang telah berlaku. Ini saya ceritakan mengenai keadaan di asrama.


1) Satu kes yang amat menyedihkan iaitu ada pelajar puteri yang hilang daripada asrama. Bila dicari, rupanya dikatakan mengikut teman lelakinya ke bandar dan seterusnya tidak berani untuk pulang ke asrama kerana telah lewat. Setelah itu, menumpang tidur di rumah kawannya. Wallahualam apa yang terjadi pada dia..Semoga Allah melindunginya..


2) Satu kes mengenai seorang pelajar tingkatan satu yang ditangkap tidak mengerjakan solat. SOlat itu katanya tidak perlu dan tidak dia ketahui apa kepentingan solat. Bila ditanya, rupanya ibu dan bapanya juga tidak pernah memarahi dia bila tidak bersolat. Bahkan ibu bapanya juga turut tidak bersolat. Setelah diberikan nasihat akhirnya dia berjanji untuk solat. Tapi kembali dengan tabiat lamanya. Ditambah pula dengan suka melawan cakap.


3) Satu kes mengenai pelajar yang suka menipu bila ditanya akan kesalahannya. Akhirnya tertangkap juga perangai buruknya itu apabila cerita rekaannya itu tidak masuk akal dan telah menyebabkan timbulnya syak wasangka kepada orang yang difitnah.


Akhirnya ketiga-tiga mereka ini dibuang asrama. Lalu disebabkan oleh kedudukan rumah yang jauh dari sekolah, terpaksa mereka ini bertukar ke sekolah yang lebih dekat. Sangat merugikan mereka kerana mereka pelajar yang pandai dan terpilih untuk berada di sekolah premier. Tapi kerana kesilapan-kesilapan itu, mereka terpaksa ke sekolah yang kurang elok.


Tapi bukan itu yang saya khuatirkan.. Setiap kali kes-kes tersebut terjadi dan pelajar terpaksa dibuang asrama, saya memikirkan siapa lagi yang akan mendidik mereka selepas itu. Tapi, undang-undang tetap perlu dijaga.


Akhirnya terdetik di hati kecil ini, terpaksa melepaskan mereka dan tumpukan perhatian kepada pelajar yang masih tinggal. Semoga Allah mempertemukan mereka dengan orang yang benar-benar mampu membimbing mereka..Amin..

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Website best...=)

Assalamualaikum wbt...

Yess..Alhamdulillah akhirnya ada website yang menarik untuk para remaja sekalian..Best sangat-sangat website ini. Penuh dengan ?????

Kalau nak tahu apa yang ada di situ, sila layari Muslim Teen Digest

Seronok sangat...=)

p/s:boleh hebah-hebahkan ye...